No, it was an idiot question that shows your financial
irresponsibility.
Why was it an idiot question?
If you and the shag guy want to criticize, then point out that the subject line is misleading. The OP is not "breaking" a lease but wants to try to renegotiate the terms, if possible, as part of a new car purchase.
ISTM the OP has two options:
1. Review the terms of the lease carefully to see whether it's even possible to end it early. One can often terminate apartment leases early, though typically with some kind of penalty. The OP does not seem to be out in La-La land, AFAIC.
2. If the lease is with a dealership, go talk with them about terminating in order to buy a new car. //However//, Al, do not agree to anything, in words and certainly not in writing. Just tell them you want to think it over.
Post numbers (such as penalty for terminating, price they'll give you on a new car, etc.) here, and I'm sure people will provide further input.
You will need to make a lot of money in order to
keep throwing it away . . . .
I thought leasing a car was not necessarily throwing money away. How much luxury a person wants will determine whether lease or buy is more prudent. E.g. some folks like a new car every few years. In this case, IIRC leasing might make sense financially.
OTOH, if the OP's intent is to try to terminate this lease with as little penalty as possible, then buy a new car and drive that puppy into the ground over the next 20 years, then he may be making a financially savvy move as well.
These days the only stupid personal finance question is an unasked one.
Also, Al's question is going to help others.