Our owners manual for our 2003 Accord EX-L 4 says to NOT change the oil for the first time (And every time after) until 10K miles. Does anyone have an opinion of this? The dealer said to do at 7500 miles because of the break in oil that is in it. ALSO - the manual says to NOT change the filter except once every TWO years or 20K miles so this original filter will stay in the car for 20K or two years? This seems far fetched? I know Toyota had a BIG problem w/ 10K oil changes and engines failing due to sludge. I never go over 3000 miles or 3 months between oil changes and 99% of our driving is very mild - slow highway etc. Waiting for 10K or 1 year scares me. Am I worrying for no reason? Should I go 10K? That's easy to say but after 36K when the warranty expires, they won't care if 10K caused the problem. Any opinions? Jim / NJ